Two books for mums
This blog is by Nicola Baird sharing ideas about thrifty, creative and eco-friendly ways to raise children. This post is about two astonishing books about raising kids and the world (for more info about my book Homemade Kids click here)
Where I live in the UK – or rather the people I visit in the UK – tend to have quite similar lifestyles. Sometimes they feel cramped in flats but often that’s the clutter of possessions or their healthy children growing taller and wider slightly faster than seems possible.
There’s a new book out though which shows photographs of where children sleep – places all around the world, and quite different to the room my two girls share. (The pic by the way is by me of a hammock war – Lola, 13, is winning but KJ, about 3, and Nell, 10, look as if they may find a way to turf her out!).
It is unusual for a middle class family to pile their over eight-year-olds into one room. But I went to boarding school and one of the only redeeming factors of that experience was knowing that it was quite fun to share a bedroom – you could chatter and swap stories as you lay in bed, or just be still and go to sleep knowing you weren’t alone. (And if Lola did get her own room then Pete and I would be forced out of our office, the sunniest place in the house and thus ideal for working in during the winter months.)
One to share
In DailyGood: Where Children Sleep: James Mollison’s Poignant Photographs there’s a staggering range in the ways our kids live. As one review puts it: “here’s a curious look at where children sleep by the Kenyan-born, English-raised, Venice-based documentary photographer James Mollison.”
One to keep
American biologist Sandra Steingraber got bladder cancer long before she had her children. That experience led to her uncovering frightening information about how chemicals are compromising our bodies in Living Downstream. Her next book, Having Faith, was a wonderful look at pregnancy as her daughter gradually developed in uterus. The latest – and for me, the best – is Raising Elijah.
One wit has already dubbed Raising Elijah as “all about silent playgrounds” in reference to the work Rachel Carson did revealing the dangers of DDT (think Silent Spring).
As children have joined Sandra’s family she’s used her scientific training to empower her to tackle all those big childrearing questions we all struggle with – what food they should eat, what screens they should watch, what places they should play. But she asks the small questions as she tackles far bigger issues, such as intergenerational equity, national security, climate change.
I am in such awe of Sandra that I don’t want to precis her arguments.
She is genius at making science easy to understand, and fascinating too. Towards the end of Raising Elijah (by the way her boy was not named after a weirdy beardy from the Old Testament, but a 19th century abolutionist) she calls on mothers to make a bigger effort to look after the world .
“Ultimately, the environmental crisis is a parenting crisis. It undermines my ability to carry out two fundamental duties: to protect my children from harm and to plan for their future. My responsibility as a mother thus extends beyond push mowers and cotheslines to the transformation of the nation’s energy systems along renewable lines. Fine. With joy and resolve – and accepting the full severity of the situation … – I hereby devote myself to the task.” (p283/hardback/ Raising Elijah by Sandra Steingraber)
Over to you
Let me know if there are any books about parenting, or for children, that you really rate, as I love to share these and keep up-to-date. Thanks, Nicola x